Have you ever had one of those days where you are desperately lusting after a woman and you lose control as an instinct.I think it is due to the fact that once you get the hot girl of your dreams half of the time it is like she has the ability to reject you at any given moment.
This is especially bad if you are new at picking up women and you really want it.It doesn’t matter how much you want it. This happens and happens to every guy at some point in his life and you need to accept that it happens and get over it.
I have known some guys that just go into overdrive as soon as they step on the pick up pad, combing women, plying them with booze and offering them drugs and just basically doing anything they want to limit efforts and start making their lives miserable.
This shows just how low self-esteem they have.
This is just one of the first steps of the woner mindset that almost every woman has either when she thinks she has found the man of her dreams or one that she can dominate simply by kissing his ass.
I know many guys that complain about almost every aspect of meeting women, from now-Where the places are and how to get there, where to run into her, how to flirt and the list goes on and on…I was recently talking to a group of men who were having trouble starting a conversation with women, especially if they don’t know one another. They were afraid to do the things that show that they have self-esteem so they act like wimps around women.
What’s even worse is that these poor guys that complain about everything, are the one’s that the women are using to judge them, through past experiences. This is wrong.The first key in picking up women is to understand that there is no magic bullet. That you will have to almost transform yourself into a Different Man. When you have that, then picking up women will be easier.
When I say Difference, I am talking about a man who has character, confidence in himself and his actions, and will not be afraid to say what he feels.Difference-Men who get the outcome.
Here is my proposal to you:
STOP Fearing Rejection. Instead, be the guy who is indifferent to whether the girl rejects him or not.
Learn the way to woman’s soft spot:
If she rejects a guy, LET HER KNOW THAT YOU WILL THROW HER AWAY SO THAT SHE GETS REJECTED ON THE VERY FIRST SHARE.A lot of guys will try to do it very nicely saying something like “sorry to hurt your feelings” or “it wasn’t intentional”.
If you do any of this, you do not shift the power to the woman, you do not shift yourself into a man a woman can control and you also do not LEAD HER.
LEAD HER.
The only way a woman can control you is to deny you your power and to be a good boy about it.Instead of saying: “I forgot my number” or “I’m a bad boy” say:
“If you want to reject me, it’s up to you, but I will learn from this and you have no power against me.”Then simply make fun of her for being such a rude girl.
Leave her at home, go talk to another girl, then come back and say:
“OKAY, THAT’S IT COOKIES. I NEED TO GET BACK TO MY LIFE OF LADIES.”
Then just leave.
This is about the only way a girl will respect you enough to turn around and face her with a positive attitude when you talk to her the first time.Use this method and you will learn how to talk to women, almost magic.
