Would you like to know how to talk to men in a manner that builds connections and rapport with him? Did you know that sometimes men don’t even really want to engage in a conversation?
Do you feel frustrated and confused when it comes to communicating with men you are attracted to or interested in? If so, help is on the way. You can learn how to talk to men and will eventually be able to build a connection that will have you talking for hours without a thought of rejection or humiliation.
Many women will be surprised to know that it isn’t difficult to talk to just about anyone. The reality of the matter is that men are not as worried about being able to engage in conversation with a strange woman as they are with their male friends or other women. However, this does not mean that he won’t listen or that he won’t be interested.
He will listen sometimes because he wants to get to know you but more times because you are a familiar face and available to him. He will probably be a little nervous at first but will soon warm up to the situation and become comfortable talking with you. You will be doing him a huge favor by giving him the confidence to talk with you.
This is one of the most important parts of communication
Although it seems difficult to comprehend sometimes, it is extremely easy once you learn how to use it. Understanding that you can talk with men is the key to making this process a success. When you can feel comfortable talking to a man, you will find that he is interested in you.
If you can make men interested in you, they will want to talk with you and get to know you better. When a man is interested in a woman, he will want to talk with her or worse, offer to buy her a drink. Start your conversation with the man by giving him a compliment. Tell him how good his shirt looks on him or how well he professional looks in his outfit.
This can be a huge turn on for a man as it shows that you are paying attention to him. Some men will be nervous about speaking with an attractive woman but with a little coaxing, you can get him to talk about himself. Ask him about his job or the type of things he likes to do on his spare time.
These types of questions will give you a good idea of what he likes to do and will let you know if you are going to share a mutual interest. Don’t be afraid to ask him things about himself that you find interesting. He will most likely be flattered by your interest in his hobbies and work.
Use your surroundings and the conversation to get him to open up
Ask him about the type of work he does, if he has hobbies or interests to share, and why exactly he enjoys (or hates) his work. Where he goes to school or where he works as a professional are great questions to ask. This will give you a good idea of the type of work he does and whether you would like to work together in the future.
The best advice when talking with men is to be yourself and do not be afraid to let your funny side come out. It can be very intimidating to engage in conversation with a superior woman, especially one who is a man. Don’t be embarrassed by that — everyone enjoys striking conversation with people being reciprocal. Remember that he is in many ways your equal (if not more so) and the fact that he is a man does not take away from your equality.
Remember that he wants to have fun (because being a man helps him feel powerful and strong) but he also wants to feel connected and appreciate you for who you are. This is the key to building a relationship with a man and will soon carry you off into happy, fulfilled lives.
