A quick posting today for all the women out there in the single world. Want to know the truth? Holding hands doesn’t mean a woman is in a relationship!As you may of guessed, I am a guy and I am not sure why my wife doesn’t want me to hold her hand in photos or on our walks or in our banter.
I am pretty sure the reason she doesn’t want me to hold her hand is because we are just friends or just a girlfriend and nothing more! She is not offering her hand as a offering in a relationship for many, many reasons and I will go over them all, but only briefly.
When we were dating I would hold her hand, but not very much. It was more about a tight hug, where I was holding her arms and shoulders, rather than a firm, sturdy, handshake. I needed to feel her hands, so I would gently put my arm around her shoulders while we were walking and at play. Once in a while she may have placed a hand on my hand, but not very often.
About 2 or 3 months into the relationship, she began to show more and more skin
We had a lot of fun, but I never saw any actions, so I conclude that either she did not feel comfortable letting herself go or was uncomfortable with the idea of me holding her. About 2 or 3 months into the relationship, after a good hug and a kiss, she let me hold her hand. We weren’t intimate, but I felt a physical bond.
So much so that she allowed me to hold her hand again while we were out to dinner. But suddenly, without any warning, she let me hold her again while we were walking from our bedroom to our parent’s house. I was confused, but I went ahead and asked her, “what are you doing?” She laughed, but didn’t explain.
At that point I held her hand again and she held mine
We were more intimate and more sexual, and I continued to hold her hand, but now she put a finger in her mouth and gently bit it, before falling asleep. I stopped and asked her, “what did that mean?” She laughed and said, “I don’t know, I guess g-o-x.” She was never the same.
I handled the relationship very respectfully, but in the end, it was not enough. I had fallen in love with a girl that had not merely told me about how she was feeling, but actually had been acting on feeling. So much so that she was ready to get married. That was several years ago, and I never heard from her again.
Holding Hands
I have been happily married for over 15 years and am about to get married for another 5. I never saw or cared for another woman again. I never knew what caused my wife to change. I was happy to let her go, because frankly, I don’t know why I fell in love with her! I still have over 1,000 friends that I made while she was a part of my life, but I started dating women again and found out what made them tick.
It isn’t about how they look, because honestly most have nothing in common other than they want to have children and I want to be in a relationship. It isn’t about how they smell, because I really like a woman that smells like flowers. Most women don’t have enough sense to know that I am not interested in them sexually, but I am!
I am not interested in some woman that thinks that she can make me commit to her. So, like I said, I have been happily married for over 15 years and never again will I get any woman except one that I am truly in love with. I tried over and over and over again, and look where I am now!
