Here Is How You Can Achieve That
The saying that you can’t get what you want is true if you look closely, especially in relationships. So how do you become desirable in the eyes of a man? As superficial as this may sound, the following ways will give you an edge.
Look and smell good
Men are visual beings so they can’t resist a woman who takes care of herself and looks attractive. Being beautiful and attractive is not the same as being superficial. To make him desire you, you must actually have some substance. So, invest some time and money on improving your looks and boosting your self-esteem.
Be yourself
You can’t pretend to be someone that you are not forever and it won’t be easy to live up to that image. With time, your true self will be more than worth presenting. So, don’t fake for too long. Keep him wanting to know more.
Don’t be desperate
Don’t show the guy that he is all you want at once. It will be easy to give in when the terms of your relationship state that he is the only one who can keep you. Offering to give him control early on is an ego smash. Hold back until after the honeymoon.
Be responsible
A man wants a woman who is responsible both in personal decisions and in other aspects of the relationship. It is also important that you take your share of responsibilities. Make him contribute, as you would also do, if he is the one who wants to pay the bills.
Give him space
You need to respect your man’s space because he won’t appreciate it if you are too demanding of it. Avoid being inconsiderate and overprotective early on in the relationship. Allow him to enjoy his time with other women. Don’t change your schedule just because he doesn’t want to cancel on you.
Be pleasant to people he cares about
You could be dominant when it comes to your job, but you could be a gentlewoman when it comes to your family and other people he values. He will be attracted to you if you are pleasant to people that he cares about.
Don’t be spiteful
Being spiteful is very different from being pleasant. Being spiteful comes from a place of hurt and demonstrates how you are emotionally unattractive. Try to be accommodating and make an effort to be respectful and cordial to everyone unless you feel like doing something else.
Have a good fashion sense
You don’t have to dress prim and proper. You can be fashionable without showing too much skin. You can be sexy with clothes and just the right amount of makeup. Accompaniment your looks with a good sense of humor.
Be upbeat
You can attract any man if you are bright and cheery. Men are attracted to women who are cheerful and easy to be with. You can be adventurous as well as charming and men would like to spend time with you.
Do not pretend to be someone else
One of the quickest ways to be popular is to be yourself. You don’t have to be prim and proper. At this point, you just have to show the best version of yourself and be confident about it. You can be real and transparent and that would be much better than pretending all the way.
Show your best talents
Being talented is not being a adaptable andurable person. You can be warm, sweet, jolly and fun as well. If you have some talents that need some fixing, work on it and improving. In doing this, you would be able to indicate your openness to creative changes, which would make him want you.
