Nice guys. You know those guys who you secretly despise. They are always trying to take the limelight from you at every possible opportunity. They always end up making a fool of themselves, or getting in trouble for something. You just hate them! Well, the good news for you is that you CAN become one of the nice guys and never have to. You just need to know how this secret society of nice guys works and how to join it. Read on.
So what is a nice guy?
According to thelings of easinessreally, a nice guy is a guy who doesn’t necessarily ‘meet’ the needs of women in the way that they really want met. He is there to give her what she wants, and usually ends up getting turned off or cured of love. He is there to give her what she wants, and usually tries to sell himself doing things she wants. He is there to give her what she wants, and ends up being disappointed and heart broken when she actually feels some chemistry for him, and doesn’t give her what she wants.
The role of nice guys in society
Now do you actually believe that the nice guys are now an endangered species? Can you see yourself becoming one of them, all the other men who cannot please a woman and always end up getting rejected? I bet you do. Or are you a nice guy, but like to be really incognito, as in, you act like one of the nice guys, but you really don’t want to be identified as such? In either case, the role of nice guys in society really does not exist. The men of today are taught, whether they are in his family or at school, to be gentlemen and good citizens, good looking, well dressed, polite, neat, and well mannered. Men of today are told, pretty much blatantly, that their “manliness” depends entirely on how they treat and talk to women. And women are both deceived and clueless as to what it takes to be attracted to men who are confident, well spoken, exciting, challenging, and so forth.
Playboy mindset
Actually, the Playboy mentality is really the modern daywriting the norms for the modern western male. Men of today are told to be patient. They are told that they are supposed to be steamy and romantic. They are told that they aren’t supposed to be aggressive in their sexual advances, but rather wait for the most perfect partner to fall from heaven. How ridiculous! Modern western men have become like wards of the hospital, and should not really have to do much of a thing.
The nice guys will still flourish in today’s society
Yes, the great abundance and perzaneness of women can mean that the nice guys have a rough time. Many of them will cross the line when their mind has something on the order of a relationship. But it will be like dumping a light bulb. They will see it and get fired up to approach, talk to, and seduce a woman they want. And many will get too aggressive in the hoping to get the woman into bed. The wrong object of this would be an intense relationship. Being overly assertive can be tiring to the male psyche. There are those who think alright, I will be assertive, but I want to make sure that doesn’t go too far. That being said, a nice guy ought to be able to kick back with his pals or tow a friend’s pricey car, all with the aid of a fairly powerfulitch Step by Step game controller.
